Last Thanksgiving

It was around last Thanksgiving but not actually ON Thanksgiving, I don't think, when I remember whipping him angrily with the stick. I made him bend over the toilet seat with his pants and underpants down and I spanked him with the stick about 20 times for disobeying me. He cried and cried. I then told him I would take a picture to help him remember so I would show him later on to remind him. But now I can't remember what it was for. THIS is one of the problems I have spanking him, not really remembering why. It makes me feel guilty for punishing him but really do I need to be able to remember every single spanking and what it was for? I still haven't told him about this blog but when I do he's in for a serious shock. I need to save it for a really severe punishment. I have been considering spanking him for various things all week long. It's coming soon, I know. Just a question of when and how hard it will be.

Telling Him

I have absolutely no problem telling my husband what's going to happen to him once I decide to spank him. Nothing about spanking him embarrasses me. I don't even hesitate if I think he deserves it. I have pulled his underpants down in front of friends of mine while dragging him over my knees. I have spanked him in public where total strangers could see and hear. I'm not embarrassed to see his exposed privates before he bends over my lap and I'm not even embarrassed to pull his buttcheeks apart to use the ice cube on him or to take his temperature as part of punishment. One time he peed his pants while I was spanking him but I didn't stop and wasn't embarrassed to feel it. But I am so hesitating to tell him that I am posting about his punishments. Maybe the next time he does something super bad, then I will feel that it is part of his punishment after I spank him. I almost spanked him today but then changed my mind because I didn't really think he deserved it. That would not have been the spanking to tell him about this blog, I don't think. Sooner or later I will tell him. But not yet.

Too Strict

Sometimes I feel a little guilty about times I've punished him before. Today, as I was thinking about what to post, I was looking through some of the photos I have. I found this one, and it was from a time I told him I was going to spank him so one of his friends on IM could see him getting it. I made him turn on the webcam, but I didn't really broadcast it to anyone; I just told him I would if he wasn't obedient. I made him put on panties and bend over my knees in front of the webcam. Then I took a picture of it and told him I hadn't decided yet which of his friends online I was going to contact to see his beating. He bawled hysterically (which is why I changed my mind), and I decided I was being way too strict and mean. Am I too strict to put it here?

Well, That Didn't Last Long

My mom and dad had been gone less than an hour before I was furious with my husband for things he said to my parents (things that he KNOWS he's not supposed to tell them). So off we go, me dragging him by the hand, to the bedroom to get over my knees for a hard spanking on his bare seat. Back into panties he goes as additional punishment and then off to the corner to stand until I decide whether or not I'm done reddening that behind.

I stepped into the room while he was standing in the corner and took a photo as more punishment. You know, though, I haven't sent him the link for this website yet. I think I am saving it for a REALLY serious punishment later on when I say, as he's getting up off my lap rubbing his sore butt, "Go look at husbandspankings.blogspot.com and see why you'd better straighten up in the future unless you want more of your spankings to go online!"

I made sure you can see the women's panties and that sore, red bottom too. He was still sobbing when I took the picture but maybe he needs the ice cube and the stick. I'll think about it.

Tired

I'm tired this weekend and that's the time I have to be most aware that I am grouchy and could easily end up spanking my husband for no really good reason. That isn't the way I want to be. I spank him because I think the punishment will teach him a lesson, not just to vent. In the past I have really blistered his bottom just because I was in a bad mood and I didn't even realize it until he was crying that he was so sorry for whatever he did. Whatever he did? Didn't I tell him what he was being whipped for? I remember looking down at his bare butt over my knees before and it was so red from me spanking him and I was out of breath from spanking him so hard. I felt guilty. Now I try to remember to spank only if he has earned it, not just because I'm having a hard day. At the very least I hope I will only make him stand in the corner while I calm down before I go get the brush and make him drop his pants to get it.

In this picture, the woman spanking her husband is left handed which I think is cool since I'm left handed too.

Tonight's Spanking

Well, it's done.

I know it hurt. He cried and begged after I pulled those underpants down to paddle that bare bottom of his. The brush is very effective for reddening his butt, and he knew he was going to get it good from the minute he walked in. We went straight to the downstairs bathroom and he pulled his jeans down before bending over my knees. Remember I said he was pretty obedient when it's time to get punished? He held still and took the spanking without trying to put his hands behind him to cover and without kicking too much. He knows better or I'll have to be more severe. And believe me, I can still be more severe than just a simple bathbrush spanking across my lap.

I spanked him until my arm was getting tired and then I put him in the corner for half an hour with his pants and underpants down to think about what he was in trouble for (not contacting the contractors today like I told him). I caught him rubbing and I almost told him that he had to bend over again to get more, but I didn't. Instead, I told him to put on a pair of white panties and get to bed. I told him before he leaves tomorrow morning I will do a panty inspection and I'll do it again when he gets home. If he disobeys me and doesn't wear the panties I made him change into tonight, I will give him a spanking to remember and then consider further punishments like the ice cube. He'll obey, though, because when it comes to being punished, he's amazingly well behaved. I told him once he would stand in the corner until he peed his pants as punishment, and he would have obeyed me if I hadn't decided that it wasn't necessary and let him out of the corner before it happened!

He went to bed crying. I think he'll sleep on his stomach tonight. I will sleep on my right side because my left arm is sore from paddling him.

NOW It's Time

He's out with a friend tonight but as soon as he comes in, he's going over my knees. I gave him some very specific things to take care of in preparation for moving to a new house and tonight I find out that he hasn't taken care of them. So, I left a message on his cellphone to tell him to come upstairs and get me when he gets home and we'll go downstairs to the bathroom. I am going to lay out the bathbrush for his bare butt when he's over my knees while I sit on the toilet. I am also going to set up the camera so I can get some screen captures that I can post here to teach him an extra lesson. He'll get corner time afterwards and tomorrow all day he will wear panties instead of his underpants so he can remember. He is having breakfast with a friend of his tomorrow so he will have to sit there with her and know that he's being punished the whole time because he's wearing a pair of women's panties. I hope he learns a lesson about doing as he's told. More later after he's had a good hard spanking.