Thursday, August 6, 2009

Caught


I know he masturbates and I don't think that by itself requires punishment unless I catch him doing it.

Well, I caught him.

I told him he had five minutes to finish and then he was going over my knees for the paddle and then over the seat of the chair for the stick. I took the picture right after I finished.

After I was done with his bottom, he got 30 strokes with the belt across his hands. I made him stand there with his underpants down and count very stroke on his palms.

My friend SH says I should spank his penis but I think that's too harsh.

59 comments:

Anonymous said...

You can do a lot of things with and to a penis but spanking isn't one of them...you can only spank a buttock(s)...

As to hand strapping,there is a danger of nerve damage..in Scotland where the tawse was used,I never heard or read of 30 strokes being administrated,but your hubby must be a pain junky...

Anonymous said...

Dear Angry Wife,
I have read most of your blog and appreciate the effort you have put in it. But I am puzzled. By now I think many disciplinary wives would be using very severe punishment on your husband. He seems incorrigible. When I was first subject to disciplinary spanking as an adult more than 20 years ago I earned many spankings maybe as many as two or even three a week in the first year. But once my girlfriend now my wife started escalating the severity of punishment for repeat bad behavior I cleaned up my act fast. I now go routinely a month or longer between serious spankings and the cane comes out automatically if I repeat some offense I was recently spanked for doing. If your husband is getting off on his spankings I suggest you drain him before you spank or make him do that. I absolutely hate it when my wife does that but it is very effective in changing behavior,Good luck to you

Anonymous said...

Angry Wife
My wife regulates my masturbation too because I have a serious self control issue about it .I am glad she does except when I am actually being punished for disobeying her. But I would find it confusing if her rule was just based on getting caught. Any man can figure out how to jack off without getting caught so it becomes just a game. I get spanked period if I masturbate without permission. Would you explain why you make it punishable only if he gets caught Thanks

FL said...

Striking his penis in any fashion could easily cause very serious and possibly permanent damage. I would suggest not doing it.
The next time your mother visits, ask her how to deal with your husband's masturbatory habits. Make sure he's present for the conversation but don't allow him to offer any unsolicited opinions. I'm sure the results would be interesting.

Anonymous said...

AW's husband has a "Pathology"...definition...any deviation from a healthy or normal condition,abnormality...

Here,it gets a little more complex,I suspect that he likes to be spanked or maybe the more exact term would be...he feels a strong need to be spanked...he,as a grown man, can end the situation at any time but,chooses not to...he also gets spanked by his mother-in-law and for good measure,his father-in-law...hardly,stuff to be brought up say,around the Thanksgiving day table...

I think in the world of domestic discipline,reality has sometimes to be suspended....if AW had a say 8 year old son and spanked him severly for running into the steet in front of traffic...the chances of that spanking having to be done again for that particular situation are somewhere between slim and none...lesson well learned...

Yet,we have a grown man,his fanny turning various shades of crimson.being repeatedly spanked for matters both great and small...


One of Life's smaller riddles...:)

Hanks Sara said...

When I caught my husband masturbating I came up with a perfect solution. The following night I insisted he masturbate in front of me. After he came I then had him assume spanking position and gave him 50 swats with a brush he hates most.
The following evening I repeated the same routine but gave him 60 swats with the same brush. I continued with the same routine nightly till we reached 100 swats.
With his buttocks bruised and raw he swore he would not ever masturbate again without asking permission from me.

NaughtyDen said...

Hi Angry and Husband
First what a nice picture! You got a good spanking young man I am sure it stung good. Also I am sure you deserved it for many things, I know because like you I am a guy and well lets face it we do lots of naughty things and could use a good spanking just about every day.
But a spanking for masturbating? Sure if he was doing it in public in front of children you bet he should get his ass whooped but in his home? I don't think so, just for masturbating. I understand you have a kid so yea he should do it with a locked door. But as to masturbating itself the research is showing that men should masturbate several times a week to keep the prostate healthy. Studies are showing that it may help prevent prostate cancer. Now we have lots of pink things for breast cancer but not much for prostate cancer so if jerking off helps keep some guys alive I say go for it. There are lots of other things wives can find to spank their husbands for but this should not be one of them.
Love Ya!

Anonymous said...

I disagree with NaughtyDen about never spanking for masturbation. It depends on the circumstances. If a guy is not having sex regularly with his lover or there are special circumstances going on then yes he should be permitted to masturbate in private a reasonable amount ( once or twice a day isn’t reasonable though) But if he has a reasonably happy sex life and he still masturbates he needs discipline because he lacks self control. In my case it was hurting our sex life because I was masturbating to fantasies so much I couldn’t get and hold an erection long enough to satisfy my wife. We had many long talks about it before it became punishable but once it did our sex life improved 1000 percent. If she had not got it under control it might have led us toward divorce because she has a strong libido. I have been through that once and getting your ass warmed is much better than that. I still masturbate occasionally with permission and have unlimited privileges when she is away or traveling but when she is home it’s a spankable offense.

Anonymous said...

I agree that masturbation should be controlled behavior. It is healthy for men but he certainly shouldn't be doing it without permission. Perhaps he should 'milk' himself with your permission, in front of you or not, and then be punished when acting without consent. I think a few whacks on the penis and the balls with your bare hand will sometimes get the point across when he is behaving in a particularly chauvanistic way...like a male jerk...and certainly it will not harm anything. It may sting a bit when he's 'milked' though! How about more clips?

Widgets said...

That is your cum he holds. If he wishes to masturbate
then I would have him buy you some latex gloves. Lubricating and wearing one I would then enter through his poop shoot and squeeze his prostate. He would have no load and then a good spanking would be well felt. Ask my husband. I check him every day.
Rachel

Anonymous said...

Rachel is right. My fiancĂ© is in the medical field and she masturbates me before every spanking in what I can only describe as a clinical way very similar to what Rachel is describing. I get 15 minutes in the corner to collect my thoughts and then I am over her knee and believe me she gets results. I have had other relationships involving serious spanking but this is the first where she told me she wanted my “ cock under control” as well as my ass. When she first told me that was what she wanted it was almost like some kind of epiphany . I realized that was what I had needed and feared for years. Now its real spanking and real behavior change. I don’t always want it but I know I need it . It’s my cock and the irresponsible use of it that has got me into most trouble and I am ready to change that. I believe most men seeking discipline do need their cock under control as much or more than their ass.
Stewart

Recidavist said...

The real offence here is selfishness. The pleasure he takes for himself should be shared with you. Selfishness is certainly a trait deserving of a little over the knee time, so on that level I disagree with those who say spanking is not an appropriate response. However if I suspect R is taking selfish pleasures and neglecting me my preferred response is to have him do some selfless pleasuring of me, with nothing in return.

No sex, lots of cunnilingus. He soon gets the point.....and of course you can combine this with a sore bottom if you have a mind to!

Hugs , K

Widgets said...

Good Morning:
Like me, Stewart's Lady knows the medical way of controlling a boy. K is correct in stating that as payment Cunnilingus is the tax he should pay for playing. The male raison d'etre is to worship and keep us happy. Your husband's reason for being is to keep you happy and content and well taken care of. Your father had to measure up and your husband MUST do the same for you and your mother.
Rahel

Anonymous said...

Love the over-the-chair position. It is perfect when you haven't earned the priveldge of being over the the lap of you spanker, the chair is the next most effective position.

max

Greg said...

My only question is, do you have a sister or a girlfriend that is just like you? I am single and willing to marry, relocate or whatever. I am in deep need of some otk spanking. If my question irritates you...well you know what to do.

Anonymous said...

Good job. My wife caught me rubbing my erection and gave me a bare bottom spanking on Sunday morning - 20 spanks with a metal spatula in the kitchen. She has made me promise not to touch myself or to masturbate or I will be punished. She feels that it is sneaky and involves porn, that it takes the sexual energy out of the male that should build up and be for her and the relatiohsip, and that she should be more in control as men do not have self-control. She thinks it is good for me to have sex with her and orally please her but not ejaculate every time. She makes me go a minimum of 7 days, sometimes as long as 21 days between ejaculations. That amount of time is not harmful, instead it makes me more willing to be obedient and devoted to her. She loves to tease me also.

Anonymous said...

Good grief, have none of you people heard of male chastity devices?!?! They don't only control his cock, they will also automatically improve his behaviour as he strives to please for release.

You would only have to punish him one tenth of what you do now, or do you enjoy doing it so often I wonder?

As for your parents punishing both of you, well that's just sick & obscene.

I am a lifestyle Australian Dominatrix & find much of what I have read alarming ... your parents being privy to & participating in this, the fact you have a child, whom I am certain would hear & be aware of what is going on .... you both need to get a grip & behave in a more responsible manner. Being sadistic is good, being irresponsible is NOT!

Mark said...

Wow, Australian Dom, who whips boys, puts them in chastity devices, and is completely judgmental about someone else's kink. Craziness.

Anonymous said...

I am new to your exciting and informative blog and would love to know you and your husbands ages, any children, how long you have been married and how long disciplining. Also what kind of work hubby does.
I am a senior exploring being a sub and am learning my way around.

CrimsnKid6 said...

I enjoy the videos on this blog, they're obviously real and not staged.

Does your husband get extra swats for reaching back with his hand during an OTK spanking, as I've seen him do in some videos? Maybe you should pin down his wrist with your free hand when he tries to rub or cover up.

As long as your hubby satisfies your desires sexually, I see no problem if he masturbates clandestinely. I like the "Get caught, get spanked" rule, and making him masturbate in front of you before being walloped would make his discipline both embarrassing and likely more strenuous (little sexual arousal) as well.

I don't want to see any videos of masturbation, but I wouldn't mind seeing one of a post-masturbatory bare-bottomed blistering.

IMHO your husband gets considerable gratification from having you sting him good (as I judge his reactions to your spanks), but that's not a bad thing if you're both okay with it.

--C.K.

Dave The Rave said...

Somewhere I read that having the man wear MITTENS can curb masturbating "pleasure".

As for the MIL spanking the husband, as well as her daughter, sunds like SHE rules the roost, as it were.

My own mother threatened me with paddlings for awhile when I was in my late 30's up until awhile ago. Nothing ever came of them.

Mark said...

Please come back Angry Wife. This has been a great blog so far.

Anonymous said...

I'm with Mark, We miss you!

respectfully,
max

Anonymous said...

Where did you guys go? This is by far the sexiest site on the Internet for husband spankings. I love the focus on white brief underpants, as well. To me, they are an integral part of the spankings, and I love hearing about pulling them up and down and inspecting them and pooping or peeing in them and being spanked for it. Please come back and update us!!

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Anonymous said...

I'm just curious as to what kind of "stick" it is you use to spank your husband. Also, in some of the older posts I've read on your blog, you mention using sitting on ice cubes and tampons as punishment. Did you discontinue using these other punishments or do you still do those as well?

BHHJ said...

My wife keeps me in a CB 6000 chastity device. She allows me out of it once a week for cleaning and a tease and deny session. Then she ices my cock down and locks the device back on. This goes on for a minimum of 6 weeks, more time is added for displeasing her and if she had to spank me. She likes me always horny and on edge, she says the less I cum the better I behave. She gets tons of oral sex, and will never allow me to make myself cum.. She will make me wear a condom or rub me to orgasm in my panties, leaving me to sleep or go about my day in the mess I've made. But it"s worth it. She is so right, I'm a much better husband after being denied for about 3 weeks, then the remaining time I am putty in her hands. I clean the house, do her laundry, iron her clothes, prepare most of the meals, and massage her nightly. For pleasure I am allowed to wear panties, she is small so we buy size 7 panties, plus I need the extra room for my chastity device. I wouldn't trade this life, even after 50 lashes from her.

Anonymous said...

I wish you could catch me playing with myself. As for your hubbies penis, have you thought of putting it in a chastity device? Then he can't play with it.
RC

Anonymous said...

hey angry wife, where r u?
we miss u so much
please come back with a lot of videos and pics
If u dont come back we wonder if your husband decided to change the place and began to spank u instead :)
we r waiting

Anonymous said...

So you can't spank a man on his penis? I beg to differ. When I was a little boy my mom used to whip my bare penis with a belt. I'd have to strip naked, lay on my back and spread my legs apart. Then she'd just lash away with that awful belt right on my penis. If she caught me masturabting I'd get whipped extra hard.

NaughtyDen said...

Dear Angry Wife
It would seem that you husband has been a very good boy for a very long time. Good for him but you might think about giving him a good spanking to help him remember to stay a good boy.
My wife has given me a spanking or two that we have not posted on our blog, a blog your inspired us to put up, but I feel that soon I will find myself with a very sore bottom on display on the blog again from her as a well earned reminder of why we started it.
Bye now.

Anonymous said...

I'd say the odds are pretty good they aren't posting anymore because either they split up, or CPS got involved because of the kid. I agree with the Aussie Dominatrix, this is beyond the tenets of "Safe,Sane,Consensual" - none of it is safe, it certainly isn't sane, and the neighbors and child aren't consenting parties.

i aint cumin bac looosers said...

MASTURBATION ALL THE WAY (its completely normal and safe, what else could you want?) Dear domineering and insecure whore(sorry! wife), I have read about 3.4 percent of this thing you call a blog. First of, i would just like to say that 99.43214 percent of your so called "followers" are looooosers and seriously need to get a grip on life. Secondly i believe that if anyone above the age of 18 does something wrong and needs to be "spanked" for thier punishment unless sexually wise (if both parties are okay with it) then its completely stupid and the giver needs a BIG wake up call. As for being spanked because of "wanking" then by god do the "women" here who think its selfish need to be told to f**k of. Its not the mans fault she cant sexually relieve herself is it?. Anyway onto point three, I know for a fact that pretty much everybody put together in the world hate domineering people who have to control everything because of thier insecure matters and when you come face to face with them, you try and you try not to retort with "i really wanna smash your face in". Moving swiftly along, in response to the comments about male chasity devices, if you use one of these to control your husband/wife then you may as well get divorced because marriage is about trust and respect not thinking your lovers going to screw the next animal that comes along. Onto my last point, anybody that disagrees with me is more than likely a domineering, self obsessed person, ignorant of all that happens around them and feels the need to comment back about how i should die. Just one last thing, if i ever come across you or any other domineering people who think its okay to spank children ill be the one with the big sign following you around saying "Warning!, dont come near her/him, they feel the need to SPANK you if you masturbate and forget to bring in the milk" All im tring to say is, that this blog aint cool and domineering people suck (my COCO POPS).

Anonymous said...

I worry that one (or both) of you are not well. A friend (JH?) often posted and referred to meeting with you at times. Would I be out of line if I asked that she post and let us know that all is well. Perhaps you have just tired of this play, but some of us worry about you both. Hoping to hear from you!

Anonymous said...

I have been married 28 years to my wife. She expects me to ask to masturbate and I do. If she gives me permission I get naked and on my knees and let her see me stroke and ejaculate. I use a small glass to catch the warm semen because she likes to take the glass and pour it down her vagina as I lick her to orgasm afterwards.

Anonymous said...

I love your blog: your husband is very fortunate to have a wife who understands that some men remain boys --at least as foar as ther behidns anre concened and that they need the continuation or realization of bare behind materanl instuction concern in th eform of proper lickings. Keep up the good work.

Anonymous said...

hi--your posts and videos have been inspiring and exciting. Although I am older, I have just recently subjected my husband to sound/severe spankings, and I have learned a great deal from you about humiliation and real spankings. Your technique illustrates confidence and control. It still takes me a good while to get those tears and begs, but like you, I continue and continue. I hope you will post additional videos in the future. Thank you

ChastityDevice said...

I love your story too.

Anonymous said...

is it fair to spank a guy just because he has a small one? it's not his fault.

NaughtyDen said...

Are you guys Ok>

Jason said...

I just found this blog and have read it cover to cover...i really wish angry wife would come back. I have a Wife that spanks me, and sometimes her best friend would as well (with my Wife present) our circumstances have us in such a way where good old husband spanking isn't possible and this blog has been very cathartic for me...pleeeeeease come back

Anonymous said...

Penises can certainly be spanked. I agree with the other post, I was whipped with a belt too growing up and my cock was a frequent target. It functions just fine now 20 years later.

Leighanne said...

I have to ask permission to masturbate. And if I am permitted I must first accept a paddling and promise to eat my semen immediately.

I do it because my wife enjys paddling me and seeing me eat my own semen.

Leighanne (sissy)

Leighanne_cd@yahoo.com

Anonymous said...

Has your husband finally learned his lesson since there haven't been any postings of his spankings.
I find it hard to believe that he is good all the time since he is a male and we all know that males misbehave on a regular basis. I myself wish that my wife would have used the paddle on my bottom when I misbehaved. I have asked her to but so far she has refused, someday maybe she will.

At any rate we miss you and would like you to re-appear.

Anonymous said...

Spanking the penis is delightful for the recipient I think but also it is risky. You can damage the spongy tissue that is needed for erections. These are little holes that the blood enters that make him hard. I don't know if spanking the penis when it is hard and erect is risky though. I have received some heavy punishment (albeit just a few times) that way and no damage resulted. The best punishment would be the chastity cage, or the belly chain.
This device is a thin chain that locks around the waist securely and your husband's wrists are cuffed to it over to the sides so he can't use them for anything. Or you can put the chain on reverse and lock his bad boy hands behind his back -- comfortable but frustrating. You can put him in this innocuous chain whenever you want him controlled but don't feel like bothering with him.
Good for corner time too.

Anonymous said...

While it is a shame AW is no longer updating, we can take solace in the fact this wonderful blog remains. I prefer to believe they are both well and his bottom remains well spanked. Blogging can be a chore and sometimes bloggers begin to realize anonymity is the best way to go.

Personally I have gotten some wonderful ideas from reading AW's posts. Ideas I have a applied *smiles* to my own marriage.

Maybe one day she will surprise us all with an update. In the meantime thank you AW for a glimpse into your marriage
Courtney

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msscarletuk said...

Please please be aware, despite misguided advice in these comments, smacking the penis with a ruler does no damage at all, stings delightfully and takes little effort. I use this punishment frquently with my bitch-boy. Ladies do try it!

jellybean said...

I have had prostate cancer and because of the female hormones that I took, my"big" soldier is now a "SMALL' soldier. Not enough to get my wife excited.
I would love to start her on strapping or spankings. We are older and she is set in her ways.
Any suggestions????

jellybean said...

P.S. To the ruler spanked penis.


as a smaller boy boy, my Mom spanked me many time usinf this method...it HURTS, but really makes ya think before the next one.'

Anonymous said...

you are missed...

Anonymous said...

@i aint cumin bac looosers. THANK YOU! I feel the exact same way!

Lyndon said...

Do you not spank your husband any more? Look forward to updates....love pyjama spanking...

Anonymous said...

Perhaps maybe angry wife died from accident or just died. I hope that's not the case. I too just started reading her blog. Yes she hasn't been on here since 2009? I think she could be getting threats or something that made her stop. Wish we had the answer. Best wishes to wherever she maybe is.

Anonymous said...

Good than we don't have to read you negative attitude.

Anonymous said...

my mother and her girlfriends caught me rubbing myself. She placed me on the granite kitchen center counter in diaper position and after much discussion they shaved my bikini area. Then they took turns paddling my entire area with a number of kitchen spatulas until our neighbor really laid it on my ahole and I cummed good... real good. Next time they surprise me I intend to have my moms rubber cock buried in my bottom. I can't wait to see their reactio1n

Anonymous said...

The belt should have been on his ass. You defiantly should spank his cock as well.

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