But now it's done. He's had his little behind reddened, and he's had corner time and his mouth washed out with soap for teaching a dirty word to our five year old. Then I made him sit on a hard little chair to really feel the punishment. This was after both me and SH spanked him. More about this later.
I spanked him twice since the last time I posted, and neither time did I feel guilty. I made him stand with his hands on the bed in the guestroom for more than 20 minutes while I decided whether I should use the belt or the stick (I settled on the belt).
I had SH here one day to spank him, and she said that she felt sorry for him while she was putting the belt to him. Not me. He deserved it. It made him pee while he was over SH's knees, though, and that's not acceptable. So I punished him for that too. I wish I had taken a picture of him standing in the corner with adult diapers on after I spanked him again. I made him stay there until he wet himself.
I'm exhausted from dealing with him all the time lately.