I'm tired this weekend and that's the time I have to be most aware that I am grouchy and could easily end up spanking my husband for no really good reason. That isn't the way I want to be. I spank him because I think the punishment will teach him a lesson, not just to vent. In the past I have really blistered his bottom just because I was in a bad mood and I didn't even realize it until he was crying that he was so sorry for whatever he did. Whatever he did? Didn't I tell him what he was being whipped for? I remember looking down at his bare butt over my knees before and it was so red from me spanking him and I was out of breath from spanking him so hard. I felt guilty. Now I try to remember to spank only if he has earned it, not just because I'm having a hard day. At the very least I hope I will only make him stand in the corner while I calm down before I go get the brush and make him drop his pants to get it.
In this picture, the woman spanking her husband is left handed which I think is cool since I'm left handed too.