Sunday, November 11, 2007

Tired


I'm tired this weekend and that's the time I have to be most aware that I am grouchy and could easily end up spanking my husband for no really good reason. That isn't the way I want to be. I spank him because I think the punishment will teach him a lesson, not just to vent. In the past I have really blistered his bottom just because I was in a bad mood and I didn't even realize it until he was crying that he was so sorry for whatever he did. Whatever he did? Didn't I tell him what he was being whipped for? I remember looking down at his bare butt over my knees before and it was so red from me spanking him and I was out of breath from spanking him so hard. I felt guilty. Now I try to remember to spank only if he has earned it, not just because I'm having a hard day. At the very least I hope I will only make him stand in the corner while I calm down before I go get the brush and make him drop his pants to get it.
In this picture, the woman spanking her husband is left handed which I think is cool since I'm left handed too.

6 comments:

PallidBust said...

This is an interesting phenomenon. It's a paradox (or perhaps ironic) that just authority is indeed more bound than the submissive. Every human being gets mad at times. Sometimes the only cause is low blood sugar, or seeing something on TV that we don't like. And it is a well known fact that humans like to hurt other humans when they are mad.

But, the person in authority, if they are just (or if not just, at least in love with the submissive), must restrain themselves while all the submissive must do is obey. Despite the pain, the submissive has an easy ride as far as self-restraint goes.

Good job on taking your authority seriously. Remember, nobody is perfect, so you are likely to dish out a little extra punishment from time to time. However, nobody is perfect, so your husbands probably got away with something anyway and deserves the extra spanking.

Now I'm rambling. I find this issue interesting.

Anonymous said...

You shouldn't feel guilty for spanking your husband when you are in a bad mood. I certainly don't ! As the above comment suggests, he probably earned it for some misdemeanor you failed to notice!

In fact if, for some reason, have failed to spank him for a while -say, a couple of weeks- D. (my husband) is likely to spontaneously appear to hand me my paddle with his pants at half-mast... He also does that when he knows he is guilty of some fault I haven't yet had a chance to discover. In either case, the message is clear, and I then proceed to whack his bare bottom with all due vigor.
Indeed, his tacit admission of guilt earns him no clemency on my part: just because I don't know how bad his behavior has been, I tend to be particularly severe -and I will, if so inclined, order him to bring me some additional instruments, such as the strap, the martinet, or the maple switches he has to go cut for me every other week -and I use them as I see fit, after which he is likely to be consigned to the "corner" with a well-striped bottom for a spell that I determine.

J.

Anonymous said...

J. is absolutely right -as always! Since she posted her comment, I have been treated to six of her "sessions"-including two with the martinet, one with the kitchen spoon, two with the switch, and one with her rattan cane! That makes for a thrashing every three days- about par for the course! Please keep it up, my darling!

D.

Anonymous said...

Didn't I though!

J.

Anonymous said...

You sure did! Those two pre- and post-Thanksgiving sessions (the one with the martinet, and the other with the carpet beater) left lasting 'impressions'! And let's not forget the paddling I got on Saturday... The maple switches I brought you on Sunday are soaking... waiting to be used!

D.

Anonymous said...

How many did you get over the past ten weeks? I haven't kept count, but you know that your backside has been permanently sore from all the thrashings you got!

J.